FROM “I DON’T KNOW”
TO “I KNOW exactly what my next Move is!”
HEAR YOUR TRUTH.
MAKE YOUR MOVE.
One honest 60 minute conversation to cut through the noise, understand what is keeping you stuck and know exactly what comes next.
This is for you if you are…
💔 Questioning a relationship you cannot stop thinking about
🚀 Sitting on an idea you cannot get yourself to start
🫠 Watering down a truth, boundary or decision to keep everyone else comfortable
You do not need to arrive with the answer.
You only need to arrive willing to look honestly.
1:1 CLARITY SESSION
60 minutes
Online via Zoom
$222
Once you have booked, I will personally contact you via email with everything you need.
YOU ALREADY KNOW A LOT.
You are intelligent.
Self aware.
Sensitive.
You have probably journaled about it, researched it, talked about it, made a list, asked your friends and had at least one very emotional conversation with ChatGPT at an hour when you should have been sleeping.
And yet…
You are still reopening the same question.
Still preparing for the thing you want to start.
Still writing six paragraphs when what you actually want to say is no.
At this point, more thinking is not creating more clarity.
It is creating more noise.
Because the question is no longer only:
“What should I do?”
It has quietly become:
😰 What if I make the wrong decision?
💔 What if somebody gets hurt?
🫣 What if I disappoint people?
💸 What if I start and discover I am not as good as I hoped?
😬 What if I tell the truth and they do not like it?
🔮 What if I choose now and regret it later?
So you wait.
You analyse.
You ask one more person.
You prepare a little more.
You try to find a choice that comes with no risk, no discomfort and no difficult reaction from anyone involved.
Baby.
That choice does not exist.
But your next honest step does.
WHICH QUESTION CAN YOU NOT STOP REOPENING?
💔 “IS HE THE RIGHT MAN FOR ME OR SHOULD I FINALLY LEAVE?”
Maybe you love him deeply.
Maybe the relationship is not obviously terrible.
Maybe that is exactly why the question is so hard.
You are not choosing between an obvious villain and your beautiful new life.
You are trying to understand whether the love you feel is enough for the relationship you are actually living.
So you…
📝 Make another list of reasons to stay and reasons to leave
🔍 Analyse your attachment styles, love languages and compatibility
✨ Check your star signs, Human Design or whether this is some kind of spiritual lesson
👯♀️ Ask your friends what they would do
🗣️ Ask another coach
🤖 Ask ChatGPT
💬 Try to have the conversation one more time
You rehearse the perfect words so he will not feel attacked.
Then the conversation happens and somehow you end up comforting him.
Your question remains unanswered.
You compare the man he is today with the man you know he could become.
You wonder whether you are asking for too much.
You wonder whether leaving would be a terrible mistake.
You wonder whether staying means wasting another year.
And every new answer gives you relief for approximately seventeen minutes before the question opens again.
Because more information cannot make an emotionally risky decision risk free.
No list can guarantee that you will never regret your choice.
No compatibility chart can promise that nobody gets hurt.
No perfectly worded conversation can make another adult willing or able to meet you.
And no outside voice can give you the permission you are still waiting to give yourself.
What you actually need
You need to look at the relationship as it is today.
Not only at its potential.
Not only through your fear of losing it.
Not only through the version of him you hope will appear if you finally find the right words.
You need to separate what you genuinely know from:
🌪️ Fear
😔 Guilt
✨ Hope
🧲 Attachment
👥 Other people’s opinions
🎮 The need to control his response
You do not need me to tell you whether to stay or leave.
You need a space in which you can finally hear your own answer.
In the Clarity Session, we will…
🔍 Look honestly at the relationship you are currently living
🧩 Uncover why you keep reopening the same question
💎 Separate your truth from fear, guilt, hope and potential
🗣️ Identify the conversation, boundary or decision that belongs to you now
You leave knowing…
❤️ What is genuinely true for you about this relationship
🧠 What has kept you stuck in the loop
🫶 What is yours to decide without carrying his part for him
🧭 Your next honest step, whether that is a conversation, a boundary or a decision
You can love him and still tell the truth about the relationship.
🚀 “WHY HAVEN’T I STARTED YET?”
You have 104 ideas in ChatGPT.
A business idea.
A podcast idea.
Three possible Instagram accounts.
Seven names.
Seventeen Pinterest boards.
Approximately forty two content plans.
And not one actual offer in the world.
You keep thinking about starting.
But every time you get close, you decide that something is still missing.
Maybe you need…
📚 More knowledge
🎨 Better branding
💡 A clearer idea
💰 A complete business plan
📱 A different Instagram strategy
🧘♀️ More confidence
🧠 Better focus
✨ One final sign that this is definitely the right thing
So you plan.
Research.
Organise.
Buy another programme.
Choose colours.
Ask ChatGPT to structure your ideas again.
You picture the website, the content, the clients, the prices, the launch, the taxes and your imaginary team in 2032.
Your dream already feels exhausting.
And you have not even started yet.
Then you reach the part where you would need to ask for money, serve a real client or allow people to have an opinion about your work.
Suddenly, you freeze.
So you scroll.
Now you are pissed because your excuse that you do not have time no longer feels entirely valid.
You are double pissed because the algorithm keeps showing you women doing exactly what you want to do.
And you are triple pissed because…
GIRL. YOU KNOW YOU COULD DO IT BETTER.
You have the talent.
You have the ideas.
You have something real to offer.
But they currently have one thing you do not:
Evidence that they were willing to begin.
Here is why you are still stuck
You think confidence needs to arrive before you take action.
But confidence is not the entrance requirement.
Confidence is built through beginning.
Research and planning can give you the temporary feeling that you are working on your dream without requiring you to risk being seen, paid, judged or disappointed.
You are also trying to choose your forever identity.
That makes the first step feel impossibly important.
But you are not choosing who you must be for the rest of your life.
You are choosing what gets to become real next.
You do not have to marry the first project, offer or version of yourself.
You will probably change it 57 times along the way.
That is not failure.
That is movement.
What you actually need
You do not need idea number 105.
You need to choose the idea that genuinely wants to move now.
You need to name the fear hiding beneath all that beautiful preparation.
And you need one move that is small enough to do, but real enough to create evidence.
Not another note.
Not another board.
Not another very impressive conversation about what you are definitely going to do one day.
A move outside your head.
In the Clarity Session, we will…
✂️ Cut through the 104 ideas and identify what you genuinely want to bring to life now
🔍 Name the fear beneath the planning, perfectionism, money resistance and procrastination
🎯 Choose one direction without forcing your entire identity into one sterile niche
🚀 Turn the giant future in your mind into one visible and realistic first action
You leave knowing…
💡 Which idea you are choosing now
🧠 The exact reason you have not started
👀 Where you have been calling avoidance preparation
✅ What your first action is
🏁 What “done” means for that action
📅 When you are going to do it
Your potential does not need another folder.
It needs a decision, a date and a first imperfect expression.
[I AM READY TO START THE THING]
🫠 “WHY DO I KEEP ABANDONING MYSELF?”
You know the language of self love.
You have read the books.
You understand the pattern.
You may even wake up on Monday morning, look in the mirror and decide:
“This is it. From today on, I am standing up for myself.”
An hour later, you order a large matcha.
They give you a small one.
The line is long.
Everyone looks stressed.
So you smile and say:
“No problem. It’s fine. Don’t worry about it.”
Then you spend the next hour irritated with them and disappointed in yourself.
The conversation with your boss?
Moved to next week again.
It has been moved to next week so many times that it practically lives there.
The message you want to answer honestly?
You rewrite it.
Add a smiley.
Make it softer.
Ask a friend whether it sounds harsh.
Delete the clearest sentence.
Send a version that does not really say what you mean.
The no you wanted to give becomes a six paragraph explanation.
The boundary disappears the moment somebody looks disappointed.
You understand yourself perfectly when you are alone.
Then another person enters the room and suddenly their comfort becomes more important than your truth.
Here is why insight has not changed it
You are trying to think yourself into a new identity while continuing to leave yourself in the tiny moments that create it.
You confuse kindness with making sure nobody ever feels uncomfortable because of you.
But kindness is a choice.
People pleasing is the fear that you are not allowed to choose anything else.
Books, affirmations and journal prompts can create insight.
But insight cannot replace the real practice of staying with yourself when honesty becomes socially uncomfortable.
Self love is not only what you promise yourself in the mirror.
It is what you do when the wrong matcha arrives.
What you actually need
You do not need another confident identity to perform.
You need to notice the exact moment you leave yourself and practise staying on your own side there.
You do not need to become less loving.
You need to separate genuine kindness from managing another adult’s emotions.
You do not need a boundary that nobody dislikes.
You need one truth, desire or no that you are willing to honour even when somebody has a response.
In the Clarity Session, we will…
👀 Identify the everyday moments in which you leave yourself to keep other people comfortable
🧩 Separate genuine kindness from people pleasing
💬 Clarify the boundary, truth or desire you keep watering down
🔥 Choose one real situation in which you will act in alignment
🫶 Define what staying with yourself will look and sound like when another person reacts
You leave knowing…
💎 Where and why you keep abandoning yourself
❤️ What you actually want without turning yourself into another problem to fix
🗣️ What you want to say, ask for, refuse or choose
🧭 The clean boundary or aligned action that belongs to you now
🌱 How you will stay on your own side when somebody responds
Self trust grows every time your behaviour tells you:
“I will not leave you here.”
[I AM READY TO STOP ABANDONING MYSELF]
DIFFERENT QUESTIONS.
THE SAME DEEPER LOOP.
Your relationship.
Your business idea.
Your boundary.
They may look like completely different problems.
But underneath them, something similar is happening.
You already feel a truth, desire or direction.
Then fear enters.
Other people’s opinions enter.
Guilt enters.
The pressure to choose perfectly enters.
Suddenly, your own knowing becomes the quietest voice in the room.
So you keep asking.
Keep preparing.
Keep explaining.
Keep waiting.
The 1:1 Clarity Session brings you back to what is actually yours.
Not by pretending the future can be guaranteed.
Not by making fear disappear.
Not by telling you what I would do in your situation.
We make the noise visible.
We find the real question underneath the story.
And we turn what you know into one honest next step.
CLARITY LEADS.
COURAGE MOVES.
LIFE REVEALS.
You do not need to see the entire path.
You need to know what belongs to you now.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THE CLARITY SESSION?
This is not a generic coaching conversation where you tell me your story, I nod lovingly and then send you away with seventeen journal prompts.
We work with the real situation.
The exact question.
The decision you keep reopening.
The move you keep postponing.
The boundary you keep watering down.
During our 60 minutes together, we will:
- NAME WHAT IS ACTUALLY HAPPENING
We cut through the polished explanation and find the real loop beneath it.
- SEPARATE YOUR TRUTH FROM THE NOISE
We look at fear, guilt, hope, perfectionism, outside opinions and the reactions you are trying to control.
- IDENTIFY WHAT BELONGS TO YOU
We clarify the truth, decision, desire, boundary or direction that is genuinely yours.
- TURN CLARITY INTO MOVEMENT
We define one honest and realistic next step you can take in your actual life.
Not someday.
Not after one more programme.
Not when everyone understands.
Next.
WHAT YOU LEAVE WITH
No matter which of the three doors brings you here, you leave with:
💎 Clarity about what is genuinely true for you in this specific situation
🧠 An understanding of what has kept you stuck and why your current attempts have not worked
🧭 One honest and concrete next step
That next step may be:
💬 A conversation
🔥 A boundary
❤️ A relationship decision
🚀 A first business action
📅 A date and definition of done
🫶 A self honouring choice you are ready to make
The goal is not to control the entire outcome.
The goal is to stop abandoning your truth while you wait for certainty.
WHY WORK WITH ME?
I will not tell you what to do as if I know your life better than you do.
I will also not lovingly help you build another beautiful hiding place inside your own story.
I bring:
❤️ Loving presence without rescuing
🔍 Precise questions that expose the real decision underneath the noise
🔥 Direct truth without shame
🫶 Respect for your sensitivity, spirituality and complexity
🧭 A clear movement from insight into action
I understand what it means to be deeply sensitive, highly self aware and still completely capable of overriding your own knowing.
I understand multi passionate women.
I understand the desire to protect the people you love.
I understand how clever fear becomes when it learns coaching language, spiritual language and the password to your ChatGPT account.
And I know that your depth is not the problem.
You simply need to stop using that depth to disappear into another layer of analysis.
I will meet you there.
With love.
With humour.
With honesty.
And with the expectation that something real will move.
CLIENT LOVE
Testimonial for Livia
I met Livia at a time when my life was beginning to change for the better.
Through her 1:1 sessions, I have learned to become more confident, to face change with courage, and to stand up for myself. These steps have made my life more fulfilling, more trusting, and more magical.
I am still going through a major transition, and it takes a great deal of strength and courage to keep moving forward. Yet Livia inspires me with her lightness and confidence, reminding me that I am on the right path—both professionally and personally.
Our last session was about feminine energy and finding the balance between the masculine and the feminine. Once again, I received many valuable tips and tools to help me become softer and more magnetic.
I admire how naturally she embodies the freedom to be exactly who you are, to let yourself be seen, and to truly know your own worth.
Every session feels relaxed, open, and incredibly enriching.
I wholeheartedly recommend Livia and I’m already looking forward to my next session!
– Merlin
THIS SESSION IS FOR YOU IF…
✨ You are willing to look honestly at one specific situation
✨ You are tired of asking yourself the same question
✨ You want support hearing your own truth, not somebody else’s answer
✨ You are ready to understand your pattern without shaming yourself
✨ You want a clear next step, not more information to carry
✨ You are willing to take responsibility for what becomes clear
✨ You know that discomfort does not automatically mean something is wrong
THIS SESSION IS NOT FOR YOU IF…
🛑 You want me to make the decision for you
🛑 You want a guarantee that nobody will be hurt, disappointed or uncomfortable
🛑 You want certainty about the entire future before taking one step
🛑 You are looking for therapy, medical advice, legal advice or crisis support
🛑 You want insight without any intention of acting on what you discover
I will honour your pace.
I will never force a decision.
But I will not help fear dress itself up as preparation for another year.
THE DETAILS
1:1 CLARITY SESSION
⏱️ 60 minutes
💻 Online via Zoom
💰 $222
📧 After booking, I will personally contact you via email with everything you need
🎥 The session will not be recorded
🌱 If we both feel that deeper support would serve you, there is an option to explore further coaching together afterwards
There is no pressure and no automatic commitment.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
DO I NEED TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT MY QUESTION IS?
No.
You may arrive with a very specific question or with a messy tangle that sounds like:
“I know something needs to change, but I cannot tell what.”
That is enough.
Bring the tangle.
We will find the real question together.
WILL YOU TELL ME WHETHER I SHOULD STAY OR LEAVE?
No.
I will not make a relationship decision for you.
I will help you look honestly at the relationship, separate your truth from fear and outside opinions and identify the next step that belongs to you.
WHAT IF I HAVE MANY DIFFERENT BUSINESS IDEAS?
Perfect.
You do not need to arrive with one perfectly chosen idea.
I understand multi passionate women and will not force your entire identity into one tiny box.
We will clarify what genuinely wants to move now.
WHAT IF I ALREADY UNDERSTAND MY PEOPLE PLEASING PATTERN?
Understanding the pattern is not the same as interrupting it.
We will work with the actual message, conversation, boundary or decision where your insight needs to become action.
WHAT IF I AM STILL AFRAID AFTER THE SESSION?
You may be.
The promise is not that fear disappears.
The movement is that fear no longer gets to make the decision for you.
You leave knowing what is true, what has kept you stuck and what your next honest step is.
WILL THE SESSION BE RECORDED?
No.
This is a private, present moment conversation. There will be no recording.
CAN I CONTINUE WORKING WITH YOU AFTERWARDS?
Yes.
If we both feel that deeper support would serve you, we can explore continued coaching together.
There is no pressure and no automatic commitment.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I BOOK?
You will receive the booking confirmation and I will personally contact you via email with everything you need for our session.
THE QUESTION IS COSTING YOU MORE ENERGY THAN THE NEXT STEP WOULD.
How many more nights do you want to ask yourself the same relationship question?
How many more ideas do you want to organise without bringing one into the world?
How many more clean no’s do you want to turn into explanations?
You do not need to become fearless.
You do not need to become a different woman before you book.
You do not need to arrive knowing the answer.
You need one honest conversation that brings you back to yourself.
HEAR YOUR TRUTH.
MAKE YOUR MOVE.
60 minutes
Online via Zoom
$222
[BOOK YOUR 1:1 CLARITY SESSION]
Your life does not need another perfect plan.
It needs your next honest move.